Author, Security Consultant, Motivational Speaker
April 21, 2025 Hey Sadie girl, I don’t really know how to start this, because nothing I write will ever fully capture what you meant to me. But I need to try—because you deserve that. You gave me fifteen and a half years of your life. Fifteen years of loyalty, laughter, and love I never … More A Letter To Sadie
We’ve all heard the phrase, “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” It’s a piece of advice we give ourselves and others when we’re running on empty, a reminder to take time for self-care before we burn out. But sometimes, self-care is easier said than done. There are moments when your emotional resources are being … More You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup
In a world where appearances dominate the spotlight, and where social media thrives on aesthetics, it’s easy to believe that sight is the most important sense. But what if true vision — the kind that sees through masks and into the soul — doesn’t come from the eyes at all? For the blind, love, connection, … More Blind But Not Deceived: Loving Beyond the Surface
Finding Harmony in Love and Selfless Connection In the intricate dance of life and relationships, it’s easy to get swept up in our own desires. We chase dreams, crave specific outcomes, and often paint a picture of how we want things to be. But real connection—real love—isn’t just about what we want. Sometimes, it’s about … More Being What Someone Needs, Not Just What You Want
How Perception, Self-Worth, and Emotional Disparity Shape Our Relationships We all see ourselves through a certain lens—sometimes cracked, sometimes overly polished, but never quite accurate. The truth is, people often see us very differently than we see ourselves. And that gap in perception? It can shape our relationships in ways we don’t always understand. If … More Through Their Eyes, Not Your Own
My heart’s been heavy lately with past experiences, memories, and situations beyond my control. I’ve hoped, I’ve tried, I’ve lost, I’ve cried. I’ve prayed, I’ve won, I’ve longed for one. I’ve survived things I shouldn’t have, and watched others pass to soon and unexpectedly. Never having their chance to say their one last word. I … More On the Day I Die…
Deep in the heart of the jungle, untouched by time and far removed from modern civilization, a tribesman walks along a riverbank. He picks up a curious-looking stone — smooth, dense, and glinting slightly under the canopy’s dappled sunlight. He turns it in his hand for a moment, unimpressed, then throws it into the water, … More Are You a Stone or a Gem?
There’s something powerful about knowing your value. Not just intellectually understanding your worth, but deeply believing it, acting on it, and expecting it to be honored — in your career, your relationships, and in the way you see yourself. Your Value in Work and Career In the professional world, your value is often measured by … More Know Your Value — In Work, in Love, and in the Eyes of God
We’ve all been there—making plans, mapping out our dreams, and setting our sights on a future we believe is best. Whether it’s career ambitions, relationships, or personal goals, we often hold tightly to our vision of success. But what happens when our carefully crafted plans clash with God’s divine blueprint? And what does it look … More Trusting the Divine Author of Our Story
Relationships are a gift from God, designed to reflect His love and bring us closer to Him and each other. But not every relationship reflects His heart—and Scripture gives us clear warnings about certain behaviors and attitudes that are harmful to any relationship. Let’s explore some of the red flags the Bible identifies as destructive. … More “7 Things the Bible Says Can Ruin a Relationship”
Troy P Zehnder 