Relationships are a gift from God, designed to reflect His love and bring us closer to Him and each other. But not every relationship reflects His heart—and Scripture gives us clear warnings about certain behaviors and attitudes that are harmful to any relationship. Let’s explore some of the red flags the Bible identifies as destructive. … More “7 Things the Bible Says Can Ruin a Relationship”
Life is fleeting. One day, we are here, immersed in the chaos of daily routines, laughter, struggles, and love. The next, we could be gone. Whether through the inevitability of death or the unexpected separation of distance, the absence of someone special leaves behind an echoing void that cannot be easily filled. But what lingers … More If I Was Gone Tomorrow
In today’s world, relationships come in many forms, but at their core, they generally fall into one of two categories: relational or transactional. Understanding the differences between these two can be transformative, especially for those who have primarily experienced transactional relationships and suddenly find themselves in a deeply relational one. Love is the defining force … More Relational vs. Transactional Relationships: The Power of Love and the Challenge of Change
Life has a way of moving forward, sometimes feeling repetitive, predictable, or even directionless. But then, one day, someone enters your life and changes everything. It’s not just about romance or companionship—it’s about transformation, purpose, and a deeper understanding of love. A New Perspective A special person, your partner, has the power to shift the … More How One Person Can Transform Your Life
Dogs have long been considered man’s best friend, not just for their loyalty but for the way they mirror human emotions and relationships. If you’ve ever observed how a dog responds to love and affection, you’ll notice a profound connection to how people behave in relationships. Dogs, like humans, crave attention, validation, and unconditional love. … More What Kind of Dog Are You?
One of the most challenging questions in Christianity is: Why does God allow suffering, especially to those who strive to live righteously? While this question may never have a fully satisfying answer on this side of eternity, Scripture provides insights that help us trust in God’s wisdom, sovereignty, and goodness. God’s Plans Are Bigger Than … More Why Does God Allow Bad Things to Happen to Good People?
Happiness is something we all claim to seek, yet when it arrives, many of us struggle to accept it. We sabotage relationships, dismiss achievements, or convince ourselves that we don’t deserve the joy we’ve found. But why? Why do we throw away something great, believing we aren’t worthy or that something better must be out … More Why Do We Struggle to Accept Happiness?
Life is a series of moments, decisions, and encounters. Often, we underestimate the power of just one. One person, one opportunity, one mistake, one social media share, one belief—it only takes one to change the course of a life forever, for better or worse. One Person One person who sees you for who you truly … More It Only Takes One
We live in a world where the idea of fairness and entitlement often dictate how we perceive our circumstances. We strive for the best, expecting promotions, rewards, recognition, and blessings because we believe we deserve them. But what if we were to truly receive what we deserve? Would we be as eager to claim it? … More Getting What We Deserve: A Reality Check
Blogs are special to me. Typically I am able to write my thoughts and emotions in a general way that I believe others can relate to as well, that’s what makes them special. I can share my feelings and potentially help someone along the way. As a blogger, personal developer, and speaker, my authenticity means … More Just Wanted to Say, I Love You…
Troy P Zehnder 