There’s a subtle danger that creeps into every long-standing relationship, not resentment, not infidelity, not even conflict. It’s comfort. Comfort sounds harmless, even desirable. After all, who doesn’t want to feel safe and at ease with someone? But comfort, when left unchecked, becomes assumption. We assume they’ll always be there. We assume their patience will … More When Love Is Clearer in the Rearview: The Lessons We Learn Too Late