You ever notice how the universe has a sense of humor? Not a knee-slapping, ha-ha kind of humor, more like that friend who sends you a life lesson wrapped in sarcasm and a flat tire. You know the one: you’re running late for work, spill coffee on your white shirt, and then, just to top … More The Theology of Tripping: Grace in Life’s Most Awkward Moments
April 21, 2025 Hey Sadie girl, I don’t really know how to start this, because nothing I write will ever fully capture what you meant to me. But I need to try—because you deserve that. You gave me fifteen and a half years of your life. Fifteen years of loyalty, laughter, and love I never … More A Letter To Sadie
We’ve all heard the phrase, “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” It’s a piece of advice we give ourselves and others when we’re running on empty, a reminder to take time for self-care before we burn out. But sometimes, self-care is easier said than done. There are moments when your emotional resources are being … More You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup
Finding Harmony in Love and Selfless Connection In the intricate dance of life and relationships, it’s easy to get swept up in our own desires. We chase dreams, crave specific outcomes, and often paint a picture of how we want things to be. But real connection—real love—isn’t just about what we want. Sometimes, it’s about … More Being What Someone Needs, Not Just What You Want
How Perception, Self-Worth, and Emotional Disparity Shape Our Relationships We all see ourselves through a certain lens—sometimes cracked, sometimes overly polished, but never quite accurate. The truth is, people often see us very differently than we see ourselves. And that gap in perception? It can shape our relationships in ways we don’t always understand. If … More Through Their Eyes, Not Your Own
My heart’s been heavy lately with past experiences, memories, and situations beyond my control. I’ve hoped, I’ve tried, I’ve lost, I’ve cried. I’ve prayed, I’ve won, I’ve longed for one. I’ve survived things I shouldn’t have, and watched others pass to soon and unexpectedly. Never having their chance to say their one last word. I … More On the Day I Die…
There’s something powerful about knowing your value. Not just intellectually understanding your worth, but deeply believing it, acting on it, and expecting it to be honored — in your career, your relationships, and in the way you see yourself. Your Value in Work and Career In the professional world, your value is often measured by … More Know Your Value — In Work, in Love, and in the Eyes of God
Life is fleeting. One day, we are here, immersed in the chaos of daily routines, laughter, struggles, and love. The next, we could be gone. Whether through the inevitability of death or the unexpected separation of distance, the absence of someone special leaves behind an echoing void that cannot be easily filled. But what lingers … More If I Was Gone Tomorrow
Life has a way of moving forward, sometimes feeling repetitive, predictable, or even directionless. But then, one day, someone enters your life and changes everything. It’s not just about romance or companionship—it’s about transformation, purpose, and a deeper understanding of love. A New Perspective A special person, your partner, has the power to shift the … More How One Person Can Transform Your Life
Happiness is something we all claim to seek, yet when it arrives, many of us struggle to accept it. We sabotage relationships, dismiss achievements, or convince ourselves that we don’t deserve the joy we’ve found. But why? Why do we throw away something great, believing we aren’t worthy or that something better must be out … More Why Do We Struggle to Accept Happiness?
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