Leaving Before You’re Left: The Hidden Fear Behind Breakups

Introduction: Sometimes, relationships end not because love is absent, but because fear and self-doubt take over. One painful but common dynamic is when someone ends a relationship they deeply value because they don’t feel “good enough.” Instead of risking the pain of rejection, they leave first, trying to protect themselves. But does moving on to … More Leaving Before You’re Left: The Hidden Fear Behind Breakups

The Silent Wounds: The Lasting Effects of Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse often leaves wounds that are invisible to the eye, but deeply painful to the heart and mind. Unlike physical scars, the injuries caused by cruel words, controlling actions, manipulation, abandonment, and betrayal do not fade easily. They linger. They often grow, quietly reshaping a person’s spirit and future. The Power of Words and … More The Silent Wounds: The Lasting Effects of Emotional Abuse

Being What Someone Needs, Not Just What You Want

Finding Harmony in Love and Selfless Connection In the intricate dance of life and relationships, it’s easy to get swept up in our own desires. We chase dreams, crave specific outcomes, and often paint a picture of how we want things to be. But real connection—real love—isn’t just about what we want. Sometimes, it’s about … More Being What Someone Needs, Not Just What You Want

Through Their Eyes, Not Your Own

How Perception, Self-Worth, and Emotional Disparity Shape Our Relationships We all see ourselves through a certain lens—sometimes cracked, sometimes overly polished, but never quite accurate. The truth is, people often see us very differently than we see ourselves. And that gap in perception? It can shape our relationships in ways we don’t always understand. If … More Through Their Eyes, Not Your Own

On the Day I Die…

My heart’s been heavy lately with past experiences, memories, and situations beyond my control. I’ve hoped, I’ve tried, I’ve lost, I’ve cried. I’ve prayed, I’ve won, I’ve longed for one. I’ve survived things I shouldn’t have, and watched others pass to soon and unexpectedly. Never having their chance to say their one last word. I … More On the Day I Die…

Know Your Value — In Work, in Love, and in the Eyes of God

There’s something powerful about knowing your value. Not just intellectually understanding your worth, but deeply believing it, acting on it, and expecting it to be honored — in your career, your relationships, and in the way you see yourself. Your Value in Work and Career In the professional world, your value is often measured by … More Know Your Value — In Work, in Love, and in the Eyes of God

Relational vs. Transactional Relationships: The Power of Love and the Challenge of Change

In today’s world, relationships come in many forms, but at their core, they generally fall into one of two categories: relational or transactional. Understanding the differences between these two can be transformative, especially for those who have primarily experienced transactional relationships and suddenly find themselves in a deeply relational one. Love is the defining force … More Relational vs. Transactional Relationships: The Power of Love and the Challenge of Change