There is a shift that happens in a person’s life that few talk about, but many eventually feel. When people are young, intimacy is often viewed through the lens of pleasure, access, and personal satisfaction. Desire becomes transactional. If two people agree, the assumption is that no harm exists. What happens outside that moment, other … More When Maturity Changes the Meaning of Intimacy
Relationships can feel like a constant dance between love and frustration.No matter how much we care, we often find ourselves wondering why it’s so hard to understand each other. The truth is, men and women frequently experience relationships in profoundly different ways—especially as they move through the cycle of attraction, connection, conflict, and either growth … More Why Relationships Are So Hard: The Different Worlds of Men and Women
In today’s hyper-connected world, social media platforms have become double-edged swords in romantic relationships. While they offer avenues for connection and expression, they also open doors to temptation, secrecy, and betrayal. The allure of virtual interactions can lead individuals to forsake meaningful relationships for fleeting digital encounters. The Hidden Dangers of Online Interactions Statistics reveal … More The Digital Temptation: How Social Media Fuels Infidelity and Undermines Commitment
In today’s world, relationships come in many forms, but at their core, they generally fall into one of two categories: relational or transactional. Understanding the differences between these two can be transformative, especially for those who have primarily experienced transactional relationships and suddenly find themselves in a deeply relational one. Love is the defining force … More Relational vs. Transactional Relationships: The Power of Love and the Challenge of Change
Relationships today face a myriad of challenges that make trust and longevity more difficult to establish. With the influences of past experiences, the rise of open relationship culture, and self-projection, many individuals struggle to form solid, lasting partnerships. Patience and trust play a pivotal role in navigating these trials, but societal norms often complicate the … More The Trials of Relationships in Today’s Culture
Love is one of the most profound and complex emotions that shape our lives. It inspires art, literature, and philosophy, yet it remains one of the most misunderstood aspects of human experience. Many people chase a particular form of love, only to realize later that what they truly need may be something entirely different. Here, … More The Many Faces of Love: Understanding the Different Types and Their Misconceptions
Marriage, once revered as a cornerstone of society, has faced significant changes over the past six decades. The shift from the family-centric values of 1964 to the more individualistic culture of 2024 is undeniable. In this blog, we’ll explore how the traditional family structure has evolved, the openness to infidelity, and what men and women … More The Evolving Culture of Marriage: A Journey from 1964 to 2024
Welcome to part 5 in my short series on forgiveness. If you haven’t figured it out yet, all these together are actually chapters of a book I wrote on forgiveness. Instead of selling the book, I want to offer free reading that is good for the heart and the spirit. Why? Because Jesus loves you, … More The Transformative Power of Forgiveness
Troy P Zehnder 