In today’s society, faithfulness in relationships is becoming more and more disregarded. We live in a culture that encourages people to do whatever they want, whenever they want, with whomever they want—all in the name of “happiness.” The prevailing mindset is: If it feels good, just do it. But this mentality has led to a world where commitments are taken lightly, vows are broken with little remorse, and personal gratification is placed above the well-being of others.
Too many people prioritize their own desires without considering the pain their actions may cause to their significant other. The Bible clearly teaches us about faithfulness, not just in action but in thought as well. In Matthew 5:28, Jesus says, “But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” This means that even the thoughts of unfaithfulness can be just as damaging as the physical act. Many people may feel justified in their relationships simply because they haven’t followed through with their desires, but emotional betrayal and lustful thoughts can wound a partner just as deeply as physical infidelity.
The Bible also outlines what makes a good husband and what makes a good wife. While legal marriage includes rings and official ceremonies, faithfulness should not be defined by a piece of paper. When two people swear their love and commitment to one another, they should be considered off-limits to everyone else. A relationship should be a sacred bond, where both partners embrace each other alone and resist the temptations that threaten their unity.
For a better society, we must start with better relationships. Strong, committed relationships create healthier families, and children who witness true love and faithfulness are more likely to carry those values into their own lives. Generations of harm have been done by broken relationships and unfaithfulness, and the road to healing begins with seeking forgiveness, both from God and from one another. If you have stumbled in your faithfulness, acknowledge it, repent, and strive to be the partner you vowed to be.
Ultimately, if someone cannot commit to faithfulness, they should be honest enough to remain single rather than causing pain to another. It is far better to live a single life than to destroy the trust of someone who loves you. Love your spouse, honor your commitments, and remain faithful—not just in action but in heart and mind as well.
Troy P Zehnder 